Was round a friends recently, and was talking about dating sites, which is how I caught up with this particular friend. Anyway, she was talking about one of her friends, who got talking to a guy on the same site (not me btw, lol!) who she was getting on with quite well. So, the guy then told her that he liked wearing nappies. I didn't see that one coming and was surprised anyway, but apparently this had put the woman off that dating site, as she stopped going on there after that.
This only serves to reinforce my view that it's probably best to find a woman who is open to the kinkier side of sex or has this fetish anyway before I tell her about liking nappies... I can see that if you're with someone you love, it shouldn't matter what they like, and many people have had positive reactions. Me, I've been tolerated, but not found someone through "vanilla" relationships that really embraced it.
Made me think a bit more about it though, so I think I'm going to continue going to the local fetish / bdsm munch every month, and just try to get out there as much as possible...
This only serves to reinforce my view that it's probably best to find a woman who is open to the kinkier side of sex or has this fetish anyway before I tell her about liking nappies... I can see that if you're with someone you love, it shouldn't matter what they like, and many people have had positive reactions. Me, I've been tolerated, but not found someone through "vanilla" relationships that really embraced it.
Made me think a bit more about it though, so I think I'm going to continue going to the local fetish / bdsm munch every month, and just try to get out there as much as possible...
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