An x-tube vid

[Apemantus]

I agree that is appropriate for posters to identify videos as male or female, and to post in the appropriate forum. I do not think it is appropriate to post comments attacking a poster for not proving she is a woman, because that basically implies that for a woman to post a video without getting attacked, she has to either have a particular body type, or show revealing shots of her body. That is body policing, and it's not okay. If a woman says she's a woman and doesn't show dick or bare flat chest in a video, she's a woman, and that ought to be the end of the discussion.

In the case of this particular video, numerous commenters pointed out that in other videos the same woman shows revealing shots of herself, so there isn't even reason to maintain that the video is ambiguous.

There's a weird contradiction in what you say - if you don't police the thing at all, why bother with posters being honest? If you take everything posted on trust to avoid policing, then it is irrelevant where and what people post. Try telling everyone not to steal but doing nothing to prevent it or punish it. Anarchy reigns.

If you expect people to post correctly, which is fair enough, then they should also accept they may be asked to prove it - because let's be honest, we all know there are many men who identify themselves as female (and nothing wrong with that) but that doesn't mean everyone wants to see their videos.

As a final thought, if you are a woman who posts videos or pics of you shitting yourself online, showing your female anatomy is not exactly a massive step onwards. There seem to be no end of people keen to strip off online nowadays, and if you just shat yourself because you want others to enjoy it (because you enjoy it, presumably), then really, no biggie to show some anatomy....

It is always the dubious ones who don't, genuine ones never mind.

[renopisser]

As a final thought, if you are a woman who posts videos or pics of you shitting yourself online, showing your female anatomy is not exactly a massive step onwards. There seem to be no end of people keen to strip off online nowadays, and if you just shat yourself because you want others to enjoy it (because you enjoy it, presumably), then really, no biggie to show some anatomy....

It is always the dubious ones who don't, genuine ones never mind.

Your "policing" is unnecessary and unwanted. If you don't like a video, turn away. Here's another perfect example of awesome material that was removed due to persistant unwarranted harassment.

Secondly, you're 100% wrong when you say that no one with actual female anatomy would be afraid to show it in wetting or messing videos. naughty_lucy420, my partner for our "Bedwetters" series and a great friend for many years, refused to show her labia for AGES in any of her pants wetting videos. I can certainly attest that she wasn't a man, and our newer videos prove it. But had YOU been around in her early days where she didn't like to show such things, I might never have found her.

Women have all sorts of insecurities and scruples that can motivate a decision not to show their genitalia. I don't expect you to know much about issues related to women and their feelings, however, given that I suspect you've never actually gotten close enough to touch one.

Once again, Apemantus, the world would be a better place if you could learn how to shut the fuck up.

[Apemantus]

Your "policing" is unnecessary and unwanted. If you don't like a video, turn away. Here's another perfect example of awesome material that was removed due to persistant unwarranted harassment.

Secondly, you're 100% wrong when you say that no one with actual female anatomy would be afraid to show it in wetting or messing videos. naughty_lucy420, my partner for our "Bedwetters" series and a great friend for many years, refused to show her labia for AGES in any of her pants wetting videos. I can certainly attest that she wasn't a man, and our newer videos prove it. But had YOU been around in her early days where she didn't like to show such things, I might never have found her.

Women have all sorts of insecurities and scruples that can motivate a decision not to show their genitalia. I don't expect you to know much about issues related to women and their feelings, however, given that I suspect you've never actually gotten close enough to touch one.

Once again, Apemantus, the world would be a better place if you could learn how to shut the fuck up.

Thing is I very much doubt your girlfriend's gender was ever in doubt. It is always the ones where there is that doubt that refuse, ever, to prove their veracity in any way, and never have any camera angles on any of their vids that show any definitive female form. And sure enough, they tend to be the crossdressers (each to their own, nothing wrong with that, but not everyone wants to watch crossdressers).

[DLG]

Here's the basic reason most people don't like cross dressers posting photos or videos of themselves claiming to be genuinely female: nobody likes to be tricked. Even though it's not the cross dresser's intent, everyone still feels deceived and that's why they get angry.
I hate to complain, but there needs to be another forum here for cross dressers since they don't see themselves as male and they refuse to identify themselves as such. That or at least find a way to help them understand the importance of netiquette. If you're a sissy, please admit it, otherwise your posts are going to lead to a flame war. Thank you.

[taranis]

Here's the basic reason most people don't like cross dressers posting photos or videos of themselves claiming to be genuinely female: nobody likes to be tricked. Even though it's not the cross dresser's intent, everyone still feels deceived and that's why they get angry.
I hate to complain, but there needs to be another forum here for cross dressers since they don't see themselves as male and they refuse to identify themselves as such. That or at least find a way to help them understand the importance of netiquette. If you're a sissy, please admit it, otherwise your posts are going to lead to a flame war. Thank you.

I would add that I personally don't like it when people try to insult my intelligence by claiming to be something they're not or trying to maintain they're female when its pretty clear one can tell otherwise. If a crossdesser were to post in either male or female it wouldnt be so much of a problem so long as they didn't claim they were anything other than a crossdresser.

It's not about any prejudice, save for against idiocy.

[bwetfan]

Here's the basic reason most people don't like cross dressers posting photos or videos of themselves claiming to be genuinely female: nobody likes to be tricked. Even though it's not the cross dresser's intent, everyone still feels deceived and that's why they get angry.
I hate to complain, but there needs to be another forum here for cross dressers since they don't see themselves as male and they refuse to identify themselves as such. That or at least find a way to help them understand the importance of netiquette. If you're a sissy, please admit it, otherwise your posts are going to lead to a flame war. Thank you.

In some cases it very well *is* their intent, if they are the one doing the posting. A lot of the cross dressers get off on people thinking they are a chick.

[Pntld]

Idiots

You fucking idiot internet police ended up with the opposite of what you want.

The women have been driven off by your adolescent pointy-brained stupidity, and the only ones who WILL post are female impersonators. Probably to get a laugh at your expense.

You let no opportunity to pass, where you could fuck up a good thing.

There is such a thing as clicking away, you know. Oh, wait .... no you don't know. Fuckin' weenies.

[renopisser]

You fucking idiot internet police ended up with the opposite of what you want.

The women have been driven off by your adolescent pointy-brained stupidity, and the only ones who WILL post are female impersonators. Probably to get a laugh at your expense.

You let no opportunity to pass, where you could fuck up a good thing.

There is such a thing as clicking away, you know. Oh, wait .... no you don't know. Fuckin' weenies.

Absolutely right. There are thriving piss communities on the internet. Wetset died a long time ago due to the proliferation of sexually frustrated douchebags who never miss an opportunity to bitch, complain, or cry (often incorrectly) "fake!"

My videos are rather popular on some other sites, and so I have the privilege of speaking with more than a handful of girls who are into our fetish. When I ask them about Wetset, they all say the same thing. "I stay away from Wetset. The culture there is poisonous. They complain about everything."

Yet Apemantus and others will continue to champion their right to drive this community further into the ground. They'll never get it. Shameful.

[Apemantus]

Absolutely right. There are thriving piss communities on the internet. Wetset died a long time ago due to the proliferation of sexually frustrated douchebags who never miss an opportunity to bitch, complain, or cry (often incorrectly) "fake!"

My videos are rather popular on some other sites, and so I have the privilege of speaking with more than a handful of girls who are into our fetish. When I ask them about Wetset, they all say the same thing. "I stay away from Wetset. The culture there is poisonous. They complain about everything."

Yet Apemantus and others will continue to champion their right to drive this community further into the ground. They'll never get it. Shameful.

Hmmm, you seem to keep visiting this graveyard of a site, despite claiming you were off and never to return - with your bevy of beauties and your thriving piss communities, just why do you return!? You're clearly of the view that you are a sexual leviathan, a god in the world of wetting with a host of angels hanging on your every piss... and yet here you are, again and again, like a bad smell... maybe it was you all along that we should have been calling out as faking, as in lying...?

As for these hordes of women who find this place so unattractive - funny that the genuine women remain - Kel, for example, whilst the ones that never seem to return also just happen to be the ones called out as fake.

As someone who was visiting the old Wetset for many years, this place is no livelier or deader than it was - main difference is there is next to no spam here, which at least halves the number of posts.

Finally, as this post is actually on the poop board, there were never many female poopers in the decade of the old Wetset board, so this niche fetish is no worse served now than it was then.

But, hey, don't let the truth get in the way of your views!