Faithless Dick Sucker

[Maria]

My boyfriend is a wonderful person, but he is pretty conventional in terms of sexuality. He isn't into this fetish and he would rather see me in a silly thong than a pair of bulging nylon full briefs.

I am going to San Diego to see my family for Christmas. I have a "fetish friend" who lives there as well. We met online about ten years ago. Even though it never developed into a full-on relationship, we continued to see each other until I moved out here to the wild Southwest about five years ago.

I have tried to convince myself that I will remain faithful to my boyfriend while I am in California, but I know that I'm just lying to myself. I will go to almost any lengths to achieve true satisfaction with this fetish, and that includes being a cheatin' slut.

I feel awful, but I know that it's inevitable. I love this fetish and I want what I want.

I wonder.... If you were in my position, would you do the same?

[DeltaFoxtrot]

Honestly, if kink means that much to you and your current SO isn't at least accepting of the kink it's probably time to move on.

[Narada]

I say go for it. DeltaFoxtrot seems to be onto something--it may be time to re-evalulate your relationship.

[spandexman]

Go for it

As someone who tried to cope with a straigh arrow wife, and failed, you will be happier with someone who enjoys your fetishes and other kinks in life as well as day to day offerings. Bulging full-cut briefs makes me bulge

[ishkoman]

My girlfriend isn't into this either. We have good sex but I still need to poop my pants and read stories and watch videos to be fully satisfied. And if a girl wanted to meet up to poop our pants together I would do it in a heartbeat. I also like to tell myself that if she wanted to also have sex I would refuse, but I really doubt I would be able to control myself.

[Guest]

In that situation, I'd try to be faithful, but it's likely that I would give into temptation and feel bad about it afterward.

[vaarjas]

My girlfriend isn't into this either. We have good sex but I still need to poop my pants and read stories and watch videos to be fully satisfied. And if a girl wanted to meet up to poop our pants together I would do it in a heartbeat. I also like to tell myself that if she wanted to also have sex I would refuse, but I really doubt I would be able to control myself.

Have you told her about your fetish? It feels like sharing it would be counterproductive if my gf just wouldn't be into it, and then afterwards it's always be there in the corner, the one thing we can't share.

[spinsugar]

Do it, and do it like a fucking animal!

[bumwrap]

Go your seperate ways

Find someone to share your life, all of it, and don't look back. The situation is obviously troubling or you wouldn't have posted asking for advice. You can either accept things now and move on, or years from now, but the outcome will be the same, and it's always worse after time. Wish you the best

[DeltaFoxtrot]

If you can't be yourself, and I mean 100% yourself, around your SO... then what's the point?