Fetish Clubs

[Ponyboy]

Does anyone know of any fetish clubs to possibly meet like minded people? I live in Madison, Wisconsin and am looking for a place to find other kinky people. If anyone has any suggestions, let me know!

Thanks!
Ponyboy

[Occam's Shaving Cream]

I too am from Madison, Wisconsin, actually. But I'm a straight male and I try very hard to make sure nobody every finds out I have this fetish. Still, I'll keep monitoring this thread. Is there even a way we could ever find out who else in this city is into this?

[Ponyboy]

I too am a straight male into this as well as pants wetting. You almost have to believe there are women in this city that are into it too. If we could only find them!

[Occam's Shaving Cream]

I don't believe it's possible for us to be the only ones. Like, statistically. Right? Do you have any stories from around town? I once saw a girl on the bus pee her pants, and another time I saw a girl at a concert pee her pants. I've never been around someone who has shit themselves, though, and that's a shame. Plus, my girlfriend doesn't know about this fetish I have, and I don't know if she'd take it well. I just have to face it, I'm probably never going to get this to happen for me.

[Ponyboy]

I don't have any stories from around here. But before I moved here, my ex wife did experiment for me a couple of times. I've had the experience. Unfortunately, my current girlfriend knows of my fetish, but will not participate. She has peed on me completely undressed, but has yet to do that clothed for me.

[Maria]

I have been to a number of fetish clubs. Most of them are listed on the Internet as "bdsm," but in reality the situation is much more liberal. The label comes from the fact that bdsm is the most common fetish, but almost all responsible groups claim to be "pan-kink."

Usually a google search made up of bdsm+city name will yield at least a yahoo group, facebook page, etc., or in larger cities a website. If one tries to join online, you will typically be asked to introduce yourself with a "de-lurking" post. You do NOT need to reveal your personal fetishes. You can simply say that you want to explore your own leanings toward alternative forms of sexuality, etc.

Most such groups have what they call "munches," consisting of monthly meetings at typically incongruously "ordinary" places. For example, one group I visited met at a pizza parlor which had a banquet room. When the doors to the banquet room were shut, the group could of course talk freely. The waitresses all knew what was up, but interestingly enough they were always cool about it and some even expressed interest in experimenting with their own kinks!!!

All the same, anything involving scat or coprophilia can be a difficult subject. Even a lot of open minded kinksters really hate it. Best to just stick with the idea that you are "exploring alternative sexuality." But keep your ears open. In the course of time you will probably hear some people mentioning watersports. That could very well be your first "opening" into meeting the people you want to meet.

At least, that's what I did. Whenever I heard someone mention w/s, I would look them up online in the group membership list, and send a discreet message to "open the door."

And yes, that led to my becoming a "wet date" for a few nice guys.

Best of luck.

Maria

[DeltaFoxtrot]

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[Ponyboy]

Thanks for all the advice! Any other help from anyone else is always welcome. And to anyone that would just like to chat about the subject, male or female, drop me a line. (Just know I am a straight male not looking to cross that line)