Hate It.

[fnooks]

Who's with me on hating this fetish? I'm now 35 and been into female wetting for as long as I can recall. Yet in my 35 years have only seen 1 accident and had 1 women do it for me. This is a very long long long shot but If there is any females from Bath UK out there who wants to share this fetish with a 35 y/0 male, let me know(Bristol will be fine also)

here's hoping (altough not holding out much hope)

emale fnookael@sky.com

[Peevert]

I don't hate it at all. Although I do have some disgust over women being so unwilling to indulge us.

[moosehead68]

I have to agree with you fnooks...I have wasted so much time on this fetish that has become such a big part of my life.

[diaperpailpat]

Don't give up. I finally found a woman who will pee for me (lets me wear my diapers, too) but not until I was 30. I think that as folks get into middle age, many relax a bit about this sort of thing. Also times are changing and adult wetting is becoming more acceptable (just look at all the adult diapers you now find in every grocery / drug / department store).

[Scotsboy]

I've changed my attitude about wetting and partnerships. I haven't had much luck meeting a woman who enjoys wetting herself, but then, I haven't gone out of my way to find such a woman, so I can't complain. However, if I end up settling down with a woman who has no interest in wetting, I will happily leave my enthusiasm for this fetish in the past, and forget all about it.

I've enjoyed my 30 years interest in wetting, but it's not the most important aspect of my life. I regard as a hobby and something I enjoy in my spare time. I'll admit, I spend too much time coming to websites like this and looking at photos and watching videos of women desperate and wetting themselves, but it doesn't have to be there for me for the rest of my life. Yes, I would prefer if the woman I settle down with (if that ever happens!) is into wetting, but for me, the woman's interest is more important than my own.

[DeltaFoxtrot]

Why hate? There are plenty of women who will fulfill your fantasies if you ask them. You just have to know what/where to look and how to act like a real person and not some piss crazed lunatic.

[Scotsboy]

Why hate? There are plenty of women who will fulfill your fantasies if you ask them. You just have to know what/where to look and how to act like a real person and not some piss crazed lunatic.

Yes, if you want to pay for it. If you don't want to pay for it, she won't stand out from the crowd in a pub or nightclub, unless she's wet herself, of course! I don't think "Excuse me, but do you like wetting yourself?" works. Better off joining a fetish website for a better chance in meeting a wetter.

[Adrian6970]

Who's with me on hating this fetish? I'm now 35 and been into female wetting for as long as I can recall. Yet in my 35 years have only seen 1 accident and had 1 women do it for me. This is a very long long long shot but If there is any females from Bath UK out there who wants to share this fetish with a 35 y/0 male, let me know(Bristol will be fine also)

here's hoping (altough not holding out much hope)

emale fnookael@sky.com

I've been into the same thing for as long as I can remember. Although I don't quite get what you mean by 'hating it' I certainly felt conflicted about it when I was younger. Part of it arose from a sense that I was the only one with those feelings. It was only when I went online, by which time I was in my thirties, that I realised I wasn't the only one by any means - just one of thousands who had the same sort of feelings. In terms of what you've seen, I'd say you'd not been unlucky. I can't remember seeing a genuine accident at all, although one woman has performed for me and another promised it.

[wiseguy]

I can understand his sentiment.

It's relatively easy for you to get a woman to fulfill some of your fantasies. A lot of women like pleasing their men, and vice versa so it's all good. What frustrates me, though, is that to find a woman who's actually into wetting on her own is next to impossible when you just rely on chance encounters. Getting two people who are individually into the same thing is the holy grail of fetish hook ups. The fact that desperation and wetting is so niche further complicates things.

On the old message board, there would be a lot of talk about how many people are actually into this sort of thing. This new board has numbers showing how many people view threads. Well, see for yourself. It's worse than many of us thought.

[Omo Rashi]

This new board has numbers showing how many people view threads. Well, see for yourself.

I tried one thing: I clicked a thread I had not been to before, read a contribution and went on. I noticed that the number of views had remained the same. I tried the refresh button: no difference. Then I thought, well, you were not logged in, maybe... So I logged in, did the same procedures, and the number of views for that thread is still the same. I don't get it. How does this number develop?

[AramFingal]

On the old message board, there would be a lot of talk about how many people are actually into this sort of thing. This new board has numbers showing how many people view threads. Well, see for yourself. It's worse than many of us thought.

really? you guys thought that thousands upon thousands of people were coming to wetset and not posting? the number of people who read but don't post seems pretty high to me.

[TVGuy]

Who's with me on hating this fetish? I'm now 35 and been into female wetting for as long as I can recall. Yet in my 35 years have only seen 1 accident and had 1 women do it for me. This is a very long long long shot but If there is any females from Bath UK out there who wants to share this fetish with a 35 y/0 male, let me know(Bristol will be fine also)

here's hoping (altough not holding out much hope)

emale fnookael@sky.com

I think you must just have really bad luck! I am quite a bit younger than you and I have seen a few accidents and have had no problem with my current and past girlfriends indulging my fetish.

Also, I am not a great looking guy. I am a bit overweight, a nerd, and socially awkward. So, maybe your just on the wrong side of the Atlantic

[David,England]

I have chatted by email with quite a few women who liked wetting - indeed who were pretty serious about it.

One woman from Germany, explained how she was really upset because she tried wetting in front of her boyfriend, and he dumped her. I talked her back into feeling good about herself.

Another woman, who traveled a lot on business, explained how she would wet the hotel bed a tiny bit for fun, but didn't dare to do a serious wetting. Under my encouragement, she wet the bed properly, and left a big tip for the maid!

At age 52, I actually met one email contact, and she wet herself for me, and other things Unfortunately, we could not meet again.

I had another email friend, who would wet herself while talking to me on the phone - though we never actually met.

Even so, I haven't had a real partner who was into wetting, but I think the thing is not to get too obsessed by a fetish - try to think of it as a bit of extra fun.

Even so, I can't help feeling jealous of TVGuy

David

[Scotsboy]

TVGuy is LuckyGuy! It's all about luck in the end. They either want to do it or not. Can't force them.

[Maria]

There is no point in hating yourself because of a fetish. It is part of who you are. Once you have opened the gates, you cannot shut them again.

I became aware of my watersports interests pretty early, still in my teens. For years I was married to a man who had no interest. My efforts to suppress my feelings led only to a series of recurring dreams, so powerful that I was always amazed when I woke up next to my husband and found that the bed was still dry.

How rare is this fetish? After I got divorced, I was able to experiment more. If I was dating someone I really liked, I might drop some not-so-subtle hints. This resulted in a few wet, sexy experiences. I suspect many a man gets a stiff one when a grown woman wets her pants, but because it is socially taboo, such a man may be surprised at his reaction, unwilling to follow where it leads -- which is to a very primal part of ourselves, the primal instinct which sometimes leads young girls to wet their pants with sexual excitement at rock concerts, etc.

I agree with those who say that this fetish gets better with age, and that middle-aged folks are more likely to get their fantasies fulfilled than some of you younger ones. While most men reach their sexual peak in the late teens or early twenties, women do not reach the same peak until their mid thirties, though they often sustain it until menopause. This is when our fantasy lives become intense, when we are open to the endless possibilities of sexual experimentation. By that time, most women have seen the delight in a toddler's eyes when the floodgates burst, and we have heard a few stories, and so on. Also, stress incontinence is not unusual in women over forty, especially if they have had several pregnancies.

Many a middle-aged man has found himself with an unexpected hard on when the wife has an accident. Believe me, I have been in e-mail contact with a number of such people, and you would perhaps be surprised to know how many ordinary looking middle-aged couples have managed to work a bit of wet fun into their sex lives. I should know. I am one of them. My current boyfriend didn't have a connection with this fetish in his youth, it was only when he was in his forties and his wife started having accidents that he realized it was a turn-on. I am now the beneficiary of his passion, and very happy about it!

Love yourself, persevere, and don't be afraid to speak up when you meet a woman you know you can trust.