How Do You Know?

[Maria]

I have read some accounts here from guys who have tried to “broach the subject” with a partner, including stories of guys steeling themselves up to actually say the words, reveal the dark secret, and so on. But what I am wondering is this: Has anyone had the experience where you don’t have to ASK because somehow you just KNOW?

It was like that with my bf Richard. At first we were just hiking buddies. But for some reason, I had an uncanny feeling that he liked this sort of thing. I don’t know what gave me that feeling. I cannot think of any particular “signals” that were passed. But one day, during the winter, I drank a thermos of hot tea while we were hiking, then did the desperation dance and dashed off to find a friendly clump of trees where I could undo my heavy winter garments. As I was squatting there in the snow, my heart was pounding because I was thinking: “He’s getting a hard on about this, I don’t know how I know but I just KNOW!” And meanwhile he was standing there, dick throbbing, and he told me later that an inner voice spoke to him and said, “If I am really nice to this woman and get to know her, someday she will wet her pants for real.”

I tried a few more experiments with the hot tea and heavy winter clothes, and each time his arousal became more obvious. Finally, I really did stage an “accident” and wet my pants. This was followed later on by wonderful love-making. Richard told me that he somehow just “knew” that I was into that sort of thing, but he also had no idea why he knew, nor could he remember any specific signals.

I don’t know what to call this. There are lots of stock phrases. “It takes one to know one.” “Kindred souls call out to each other.” And so on.

I was just wondering... Has anyone else had a similar experience with a partner? Where you just KNEW without having to discuss it?????

[Omo Rashi]

How Do You Know?

I was just wondering... Has anyone else had a similar experience with a partner? Where you just KNEW without having to discuss it?????

Never

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[Maria]

Never...

Sorry Omo Rashi..... I didn't mean to make anyone feel depressed. I sincerely hope that the very next girl you date is thoroughly incapable of keeping her panties dry at rock concerts, sporting events, and dance clubs!!!

[Curious]

Not a partner exactly, but I have experienced three women definitely and one probably that have enjoyed wetting. I have described some of these before online but briefly three of them I discovered accidentally by coming across their soiled underwear and one in the course of a brief fling when I discovered that her knickers were soaking wet when I first explored her. All these experiences caused me to cum copiously in my pants.
In one case, a foreign student who lodged with us, I found several pairs of her panties in a bag in the bedroom when I went to look for something quite unconnected with naughty thoughts. They were satin pants and it was obvious that she had both wet and masturbated in them.
In another case I called on a colleague with whom I had had a fling and disturbed her while she was sorting her week's washing in the bathroom. When I later went there for a quick pee before leaving I discovered several wet pairs of knickers lying on the floor. On returning downstairs she asked me if I had been embarrassed by what I saw on the bathroom floor and I told her that it was not an embarrassment to me other than it had aroused me. Later she took me upstairs to the bathroom and masturbated me while she sat on the loo and wet her panties.
The final case was an older lady, in her sixties, who stayed with us when we ran a B&B. I thought that I was alone in the house and came out of the shower wearing just my pants when I bumped into her by her bedroom. I tried to cover up but she engaged me in conversation, saying that she was used to seeing her son and her husband similarly placed. I noticed that she kept glancing at my crotch and started getting an erection. Breaking off the chat I made excuses and fled to my own bedroom. Later that evening I went into her room to draw the curtains and found a pair of full-cut nylon briefs lying by the wash basin. They were both wet and cum-stained, so I believe she had gone into her own bathroom and wet her knickers while masturbating.

[PP1]

Maria:

From my experiences, I thoroughly agree with you. Having had a number of indulgent partners over the years, I've sensed something subliminal when with a gal who like to wet her pants. At the same time, I've not sensed it when around those who don't.

Perhaps it has something to do with our own proclivity for wetting, something I've enjoyed throughout my post-puberty life.

I think people who are sexually wired alike are able to perceive affinity among themselves, like the gay guys in the movie "The Mexican." Somehow you just seem to know.

[Aloo]

When I met my gf we were 18, and the first time I saw her do the pee dance was on about our third date. She complained to me that she had a small bladder whilst she was doing - bingo, I thought I had hit the jackpot. She was smoking hot too. My imagination went wild.

Sadly my imagination could not have been much further from the truth. Not at all into pee, and even after a couple of attempts, couldn't make progress with it. Nearly a decade later and we're still together, she's still smoking and everything else about our relationship I love. Unfortunately her pants remain dry.

We're thinking kids in the next 3-5 years. Here's hoping babies will do to her bladder what charm has yet to manage.

Aloo

[TheSnacks]

Not a partner exactly, but I have experienced three women definitely and one probably that have enjoyed wetting. I have described some of these before online but briefly three of them I discovered accidentally by coming across their soiled underwear and one in the course of a brief fling when I discovered that her knickers were soaking wet when I first explored her. All these experiences caused me to cum copiously in my pants.
In one case, a foreign student who lodged with us, I found several pairs of her panties in a bag in the bedroom when I went to look for something quite unconnected with naughty thoughts. They were satin pants and it was obvious that she had both wet and masturbated in them.
In another case I called on a colleague with whom I had had a fling and disturbed her while she was sorting her week's washing in the bathroom. When I later went there for a quick pee before leaving I discovered several wet pairs of knickers lying on the floor. On returning downstairs she asked me if I had been embarrassed by what I saw on the bathroom floor and I told her that it was not an embarrassment to me other than it had aroused me. Later she took me upstairs to the bathroom and masturbated me while she sat on the loo and wet her panties.
The final case was an older lady, in her sixties, who stayed with us when we ran a B&B. I thought that I was alone in the house and came out of the shower wearing just my pants when I bumped into her by her bedroom. I tried to cover up but she engaged me in conversation, saying that she was used to seeing her son and her husband similarly placed. I noticed that she kept glancing at my crotch and started getting an erection. Breaking off the chat I made excuses and fled to my own bedroom. Later that evening I went into her room to draw the curtains and found a pair of full-cut nylon briefs lying by the wash basin. They were both wet and cum-stained, so I believe she had gone into her own bathroom and wet her knickers while masturbating.

Wow, those are some awesome accounts. Do you have any more?

[Peevert]

Unfortunately, I have to agree with Omo Rashi: Never.

Actually, I did have this feeling once about a girl I met on line and talked to on the phone quite a bit. I eventually dropped some hints and she confirmed that she was into it. But, like many on line women (excuse me... girls) who live their lives online because they're afraid of rejection, she wimped out when it came time to meet.

Sorry Omo Rashi..... I didn't mean to make anyone feel depressed. I sincerely hope that the very next girl you date is thoroughly incapable of keeping her panties dry at rock concerts, sporting events, and dance clubs!!!

I'm hoping you'll make that same wish for me, and add movie theaters, restaurants, and shopping malls to the list.

[Maria]

Sure, why not? Movie theaters, restaurants, shopping malls......

It seems that the "girlfriend's public accident" scenario is a favorite with most of you guys. The same is true of my boyfriend.

This is the closest we ever came. We had been to a favorite local tavern. He is not a heavy drinker, while I am the one who can always be persuaded to try "just one more." So he always drives. We walked to the car through the parking lot, which is large but not well lit. I was a bit tipsy, so we were talking sexy with each other, and I admitted I really should have used the ladies' room before leaving.

That was all it took to inspire him to playfully wrestle me up against the side of the car and start tickling me. I knew what he wanted, but was afraid to surrender because it was so close to actually being in public, and I had not looked to see if other patrons were in the parking lot. But he kept tickling me until I couldn't take it anymore and the dam just burst, powerfully and all of a sudden, liquid warmth surging through my underwear and two waterfalls pouring down both legs of my jeans. He kept tickling me until I was empty. As we hurried to get me into the car we noticed two guys leaving the tavern and also going to their car.

All the way home we amused ourselves talking sexy about whether those guys had seen my wet pants. Of course, in reality we didn't have the vaguest idea whether they saw anything or not, but it was much more sexy to imagine that they did.

What a lovely night we had afterwards. I know he would love it if I did something even more public, but he sure is grateful that I at least went that far.

[Peevert]

Sure, why not? Movie theaters, restaurants, shopping malls......

It seems that the "girlfriend's public accident" scenario is a favorite with most of you guys.

Definitely Particularly if it's a scenario where she's wearing a skirt and panties. That way, her panties would be soaked, I would know about it, but she could keep it a secret from everyone else (so she wouldn't be embarrassed). Also, there's always the slim chance that someone else might realize what she had done, which I think would add to the excitement.