A warning to others about wettingwonderland.com and Admin_Bob

[graham]

if you are into wetting dont even bother with this site.

Twice now i have been banned from 2 different accounts because i "dared" to talk about wetting in the chatroom, which according to Admin_Bob gives him sufficient reason to ban you completely from the site.

Also if its not him, the second you mention wetting everyone starts being abusive and basically says you're not welcome on the site or in chat if u want to talk about wetting.

So all in all it seems that this website is ruled by AB/DL's and that you have to talk about only their thing and nothing else.

Maybe nikki can look into this beacuse I know im not the only one who feels the same way about this and the way that the above mentioned admin treats people on there.

If you read this nikki my name on there is/was CJUKGuy

All i did was mention wetting, and accidentally sent someone a pm by clicking on the wrong thing. And i get banned. Yet admin bob sat there watching other people being abusive and telling me to "fuck off" and who "who the hell do i think i am etc.." for talkionga bout wetting, and does absolutely nothing, doesnt even give them a warning, just beacuse they are an AB.

[KingPlant]

Haven't you realised things have changed. This forum is not a tenth as busy as it used to be and if anyone complains, the thread gets locked, and strangely enough, you never see the poster of the thread on here again so they must get banned from here.

It's the new system. Read the rules. If you disagree with the moderators they have the option to ban you without giving you a reason or chance to defend yourself. After all, it's by their grace that you have this facility.

That's what they believe.

[Peevert]

I know Graham, I used to go to that room with him, and Kimmie, and wet_rpm, and we had a lot of fun web camming. Until the ABs took over. It's no longer wetting wonderland. It's AB/DL/TG (transgendered) wonderland.

Nikki, if I may offer some advice. You've made two mistakes with that site:

1. The worst thing you ever did with that site was add a moderator. There's an ignore button. That's all that's needed. All the moderator does is allow the Chat Nazis like NaughtyAngel to take over a room. And she/they have done exactly that.

2. Allowing the TGs to lie about their gender in their profiles. It makes it very difficult for men to meet women there when the "women" all have cocks. Their argument is "if I feel like a woman, I am a woman". Sorry TGs, but if you have a cock, you're a GUY.

Thanks for reading.

And BTW, we miss you, Kimmie

[Nikki]

Graham, you were NOT banned from Wonderland for talking about Wetting and for you to say that no one is allowed to talk about wetting because the moderators of the chatroom are not in to it is ridiculous. I've actually lost count of how many time's we've soaked Scotts bed!

When we started the community site, one of our aims was to keep females feeling comfortable being there, and for the chatroom not to turn in to the 2 girls to every 50 guys as it appears to be in many other places. I'm sure we have achieved this, as quite often we have more females in the room than males. I'm sure that the guys that come in to the chat room that are polite and respectful are extremely happy with this as it really gives them the chance to get to meet other girls in to the same thing as they are. In the year that wonderland has been running, there have been many couples brought together and now in relationships with each other.

The reason you are banned is because you cannot take no for an answer. I'm sure you would like to discuss your wetting with every female you can, and I'm sure that there would have been girls happy to discuss it with you. But when you are told 'no' (and I'm sure most of the time you've been told no is purely down to the reputation you've earned yourself) you need to respect that and not continue harassing a person that has made it clear that they do not wish to talk with you.

For the females of this community to feel they have a place to go and for the guys looking to meet up with girls with a similar interest, I'll do what ever it takes to make the site a comfortable place for everyone. If you walked up to some stranger in the street and started a conversation with them, and that person made it clear to you that they did not wish to talk with you, you would not stay in their face trying to make them - this would be harassment. I'm telling you now that if we allow guys to be that way then all the girls will stop coming, and that's not something I'm about to risk.

All you'd repeatedly been asked to do is to have some respect. It has nothing what so ever about whether your in to diapers, wetting, or anything else.

[Nikki]

Peevert - Your right, the most members that use the chat are the diaper lovers, but that's not to say that there are no wetting enthusiasts either. In my opinion, quite a few people in to diapers are also in to wetting. Take me for example, I enjoy wearing diapers but I also love the feeling of soaking a pair of panties and the feeling of the warm pee running down my legs :P

The reason I believe that there are more diaper lovers in the chatroom is simply because they are those who come to the room. The chat has many different rooms, one being a room designated to those in to wetting, but I've never seen anyone in there. Just the fact that no one uses it, is totally out of my control and up to the whole wetting community to get it going, just as the diaper lovers did. I cannot do it by myself.

Peevert, maybe you could be in charge of rounding up enough people to get the wetters room going. We could get a 'who can best soak a pair of jeans' compo going using the video chat, I know I'd be up for that :P

I know Graham, I used to go to that room with him, and Kimmie, and wet_rpm, and we had a lot of fun web camming. Until the ABs took over. It's no longer wetting wonderland. It's AB/DL/TG (transgendered) wonderland.

Nikki, if I may offer some advice. You've made two mistakes with that site:

1. The worst thing you ever did with that site was add a moderator. There's an ignore button. That's all that's needed. All the moderator does is allow the Chat Nazis like NaughtyAngel to take over a room. And she/they have done exactly that.

2. Allowing the TGs to lie about their gender in their profiles. It makes it very difficult for men to meet women there when the "women" all have cocks. Their argument is "if I feel like a woman, I am a woman". Sorry TGs, but if you have a cock, you're a GUY.

Thanks for reading.

And BTW, we miss you, Kimmie

[Peevert]

Peevert, maybe you could be in charge of rounding up enough people to get the wetters room going.

Nikki, if I knew where to find them, I would love to. If you can track down Kimmie and ask her to recruit, I'm sure she'd be much better at it than me.

We could get a 'who can best soak a pair of jeans' compo going using the video chat, I know I'd be up for that :P

lol - Yes - So would I. And I would beat you. :Þ

Please give some thought to my suggestions. I know there's a lot of females there, but many of the females are TGs. I don't have an issue with TGs being gay, but I do have an issue with TGs lying about their gender. I think most guys with this fetish have been victimized too many times by that already. And some women have an issue with it as well. I've talked to women who feel a little creeped out after realizing the "girl" they just shared their inner most secrets with has a penis. As for moderators, I have never seen a need for them when the ignore button is available. But some of the closet Nazis - i mean adult babies - wouldn't get the control they crave if they can't get people banned. That seems to be the real purpose of any moderator in any chat room.

As I said, thanks for reading.

[Aloo]

We could get a 'who can best soak a pair of jeans' compo going using the video chat, I know I'd be up for that :P

Will be on cam in the room in about 10-15 mins... have had a couple of beers and am wondering how long I can hold it!

[Nikki]

Hey aloo we were out last night so I only just saw your post. We should set up a day/time to do some big cam wettings so more people know in advance so they can join in

[Peevert]

We should set up a day/time to do some big cam wettings so more people know in advance so they can join in

If you can manage to get a couple females to play with us, that would be awesome.

[Nikki]

I know at least one another girl that will be up for it too. You better be getting the drinks in ready peevert, cus I'm so gonna beat you :P

[Peevert]

I know at least one another girl that will be up for it too. You better be getting the drinks in ready peevert, cus I'm so gonna beat you :P

I love a challenge :Þ

[perry]

the same

I have stopped going on there because I was also told not to mention wetting. But its the same as this board where has everyone gone? They have gone because certain people moderate to much and chased people away, the old wetset has gone and the new wetset is failing fast, there used to be loads of posts per day now there is hardly any.!!

[Nikki]

I keep keep keep keep keep saying it. If people didn't just congregate in the general chat we wouldn't get this problem. If I were in the general room and got bashed for mentioning wetting I would mention wetting even more! It's general, everyone has the right to talk about what ever they like.

If I were in the diaper room, then yes, DL members would have the right to complain, same as if the conversation stayed on diapers in the wetting room ... I'm sure you see where I'm going with this!

One person cannot make a great video chat site alone, it's just impossible. For it to work it takes every member to do their part.

Today I'm actually feeling like why the hell did I even bother with it. I make nothing from the chat room and actually find myself just pumping money in to it every time something messes up. Rather than the constant whining all the time, it would be nice to hear, just once in a while a 'Thank you for trying!'

Nikki

[Nikki]

Perry, the message board is a tiny part of Wet Set and, as a business, if it were gone tomorrow it really wouldn't make a difference to us.

I was actually really surprised when a member messaged me a few weeks ago saying he'd never realized there were more to Wet Set than the message board as when he'd found it on Google, he'd book marked it and come in that way every time.

I'm beginning to wonder how many other people think Wet Set consists of nothing more than a message board! lol

[KingPlant]

Just because one part of the business doesn't make money you don't just axe that. You also have to speculate to accumulate.

Your attitude and the way you deal with problems will enhance your standing in the market place. If you say 'we hardly think the chat rooms are worth the effort' will only rub up your potential customers who will think you don't care about anything.

If people are only bookmarking the wetting board link then why not do like Shar and Ger have done and not allow direct linking.

You joined WetSet to make big changes but all you did was rub everyone up and upset many, many potential customers. Your choice of moderators needs looking at and the way you ban people is a joke.

Basically, all the forums you look after are failing - do you not get the message yet. I wouldn't be shocked if I was banned for this comment as it says in the rules that on-one can question the moderators decision.