Letting others know you are into WS.

[wetfan]

Again you are getting the wrong idea.

Actually I think you misunderstood me. When I said I don't think you care, I meant specifically about the opinions of other people on this forum. Not in general and not in real life. The way people behave on the internet is not always a reflection of the way they behave in real life and I'm sorry but I do truly think you don't really care what any of us think or how any of us feel.

I also believe that you can be honest and tactless at the same time. In fact it's often the WAY one speaks honestly that comes across as being tactless.

As for the main argument in general, I've already said my feelings on the matter and don't have anything further to add. Again my previous reply was about your general feelings when visiting this forum and how you interact with others here, and not a statement weighing in on anything else you said about the actual discussion.

[wetfan]

There's a reason I detest Nietzsche and the entire brand of modern philosophy dubbed moral relativism. I think there IS a "correct" way and that none of us hit it...that comes to you from the Platonic worldview to whcih I attempt to subscribe (imperfectly as all humans are limited). I don't think this notion that some of us find one system of morality that works and others find another to be valid. To defeat the logic of moral relativism you need to ask but one question. Was Adolph Hitler an evil man? If your answer to that question is sane (i.e....you said yes he was) the you acknowledge that some absolute morality must exist. The fact that none of us can possibly have perfected it with our fallen nature does not remove the existence of tghat higher truth.

Nor does it mean I can't strive to live for that higher truth, even if I sometimes fail. And that includes speaking up when I believe a philosophy to be harmful in some way. KingPlant may have gotten a positive worldly outcome from his method of dating, complete with expectations of sex on the third date and condemnations of those of us who would prefer to be more discrete about our sexual desires with all but our most intimate relations, but he is a part of a larger cultural movement that I think is doing more harm than good. I think it lowers our quality of life to reduce relationships to a search for the best possible sex or even to make that the top priority in selecting a partner.

Edit: Thought better of my reply. Still moving on though and still believe if you're the same quietpr from wetset years ago, you've changed.

[KingPlant]

Actually I think you misunderstood me. When I said I don't think you care, I meant specifically about the opinions of other people on this forum. Not in general and not in real life. The way people behave on the internet is not always a reflection of the way they behave in real life and I'm sorry but I do truly think you don't really care what any of us think or how any of us feel.

I also believe that you can be honest and tactless at the same time. In fact it's often the WAY one speaks honestly that comes across as being tactless.

As for the main argument in general, I've already said my feelings on the matter and don't have anything further to add. Again my previous reply was about your general feelings when visiting this forum and how you interact with others here, and not a statement weighing in on anything else you said about the actual discussion.

I do think the topic got well truncated when quietpr started his moralistic rant. All I have been trying to say is - No-one will get what they want,like,deserve,need,require etc.. unless they ask for it. If you are too lacking in confidence to ask for it then you shouldn't be pissed off and call people chavs because they have got the bottle to do what you can't.

This is just a general reply wetfan and not directed at you - unless you haven't got the confidence to ask for it either.

As I keep saying - this thread is about wearing an indication you are into wetting to other wetters. I am not condemning people who are too shy to ask. I am trying to tell them, it's important to future relationships to get it out in the open as soon as possible, probably on about the third date. By that time I would be knowing what type of a girl she was as far as her likes and dislikes so I would want to extend my knowledge by having sex. Don't delay because you are scared. The longer you leave it, the harder it is to tell your prospective future partner. If she is not interested you have lost nothing because you can't say you are madly in love with someone by the third date and if she isn't into pissing then it's no big deal to say goodbye (I was going to say - fuck her off - but you lot might get your wet knickers in a twist if I did).

Sex to me is a BIG part of the relationship because there is no better way to show you love someone. Emotions are also just as important but I just couldn't fall in love with someone who doesn't fulfill ALL my needs. I also ensure that my partner is not losing out in the bedroom either. Love and sex is a two way street. I might be a bit tactless on here but FFS it is a wetting forum - get used to it.

How many of you on here keep looking for love instead of looking for someone to give you a fucking good piss wet shag.