Where to meet fellow pants wetters?

[iapooper]

I haven't posted much, but I've been lurking here for years and enjoying all the posts! It's nice to know I'm not the only one who likes to wet (and mess once in a while) my pants.

I am also newly single. It is clear that I should put some effort into finding play partners and lovers who are totally into this or at least OK with it, but I would prefer women who are into at least watersports and other kink.

So, where do you go to chat and meet with other kinksters, specifically of the golden shower and pants wetting persuasion?

For what it's worth, I'm in the north Oregon Cascades.

[wetcanadian]

, Canada here, also looking

[wetcanadian]

Toronto, Canada that is

[Maria]

I can only tell you what worked for me. It may not work for everyone.

When I was newly divorced, I decided that "life begins at forty" and set out to find someone with whom to share this kink.

My ex-husband was a very kinky guy who knew other folks in kinky circles (but sadly enough, none were into water sports and neither was hubby). When I told a few trusted friends from the kinky side of life that I wanted to "explore a few sexual fantasies," they said I should google the local bdsm group. I said, "Well, I'm not really interested in getting tied up and spanked," but they all said, "In these groups, bdsm may be the dominant kink, but if it is a respectable group, all kinks will be welcome."

So I typed in the name of the big city nearest me with the letters bdsm and was soon directed to a yahoo page. If you are in the Oregon Cascades you may be a ways from a large city. I don't know, you might have to go as far as Bend or Eugene to locate such a group.

With such groups, the general public is always invited to what they call a "munch," which is a lunch or dinner gathering that takes place about once a month, or, in much larger cities, even once a week. The first one I went to was held at a pizza parlor with a banquet room where the doors could be closed so that we could talk freely. Everyone wore street clothes, not fetish gear. Those who were new (like me) and inquired at the restaurant door had been instructed on the yahoo page to ask for the "Computer User's Club." (Silly, I know, but very effective.) The waitresses from the pizza parlor who served in the banquet room were very well aware of what we were all talking about. It may surprise you to learn that not only were they not hostile, some actually expressed interest.

When asked why I was there, I answered quite honestly that I was just exploring my real fantasies and desires and searching for my true sexual nature. I did not mention water sports. No one pried me with uncomfortable questions.

If you want to freely e-mail other folks in the group, you may have to make a de-lurking post on their page or website, but after I had done so I found myself able to communicate quite freely about various forms of kink with nice folks I had met at the munch. Seriously, you would never recognize any of these people in public. They have ordinary liveds and jobs, but have found a way to actualize their alternative sexual desires.

To tell the truth I was terrified to mention water sports to any of them. I went to several meetings before I noticed one couple in particular, late thirties, computer nerds, who often mentioned water sports, so I e-mailed the lady in the partnership and began to discuss the subject.

It took a while, as you can tell from all of the above, but in the course of time this couple did connect me with a few guys who were rock hard about going out with a gal who would be a "wet date."

Wow, did I have FUN!!!

Like I said, my method might not work for everyone. I tried fetish ****** media like alt.com, but since I didn't have those nice lunch meetings to acquaint myself with the guys ahead of time, I ended up getting contacted by some people who sounded okay on the Internet but turned out to be scary weirdos in real life, so I gave it up. Women, of course, get contacted about a hundred times a day as soon as they put up a profile, but I do not usually recommend fetish ****** networking to men, as the women seldom answer. If you can google and find a local bdsm group that is "pan-kink" in orientation, you are very likely to eventually meet a water sports woman who is willing to wet her pants as part of the game.

Sincerely,

Maria

[Maria]

Don't know why some of my words got bleeped out. You can probably guess what I meant.

[moosehead68]

Thank you for your insight and advice Maria.

[iapooper]

Thank you!

I do plan on hooking up with the kink community. I have other kinks I'd like to explore too, so even if I don't find a partner into watersports, I will still be having fun!

[PeePantsJimmy]

New Jersey, M, 22 here looking as well

[tinkle2]

Thanks

Thanks for tip, hopefully this may work in UK