1st real sighting

[home alone]

Wow, Wow, Wow, walking into the store today I noticed a lady get of her car. (White Cadilac) She was about 55 I would say, wearing tight black pants. I was about 3 feet behind her when the sun shown just right and I could see a wet outline on her pants. I couldn't believe what I was seeing. She noticed me behind her, and decided to turn through cars I followed noticing her butt. When we got close to the entrance she turned around again and gave me a smile. She knew I noticed it was great. I finished my shopping and left.

Cheers

[Scotsboy]

Maybe she deliberately wet herself in black thinking nobody would notice. I would have found it hard to finish my shopping after seeing that marvellous sighting!

[stevem]

Good stuff. Real sightings are simply amazing. I still remember my first real public sighting like it was yesterday. We were in a store and a 40ish lady wearing green shiny leggings had a large wet patch at her crotch. Clearly had an accident and was walking to the check out. Saw me looking and gave me a nasty look back. That was like 20years ago and it still feels like yesterday.

[home alone]

Oh Yeah

Not to worry I finished up my shopping real quick and cruized home and thought about what I saw the rest of the day and most of the night. Not only that but I didn't mention she actually looked pretty good for her age. Thats one reason I was looking at her butt. She had a butt of a 30ish year old. Hope I see something like that again sometime. It was great.

Cheers

[angerton]

I work on the Railway and have seen many drunk accidents on late trains. They give an adrenalin rush so strong I think my heart will stop.

[Omo Rashi]

She noticed me behind her, and decided to turn through cars I followed noticing her butt. When we got close to the entrance she turned around again and gave me a smile. She knew I noticed it was great. I finished my shopping and left.

Why, oh why did you not have the guts to talk to her: Friendly, as an educated person, suppressing your excitement (she will notice and like that!), telling her you can't help feeling attracted by her state. Be serious, don't conceal yourself behind a stupid grin. Avoid any embarrassment for her.

I have done so twice, and the outcome was positive, believe it or not!
She first won't believe that a completely normal man talks in these terms about that. But you win if you are genuine. Women get it quickly.

This situation is so rare...

[Dusty Harold]

Why, oh why did you not have the guts to talk to her: Friendly, as an educated person, suppressing your excitement (she will notice and like that!), telling her you can't help feeling attracted by her state. Be serious, don't conceal yourself behind a stupid grin. Avoid any embarrassment for her.

I have done so twice, and the outcome was positive, believe it or not!
She first won't believe that a completely normal man talks in these terms about that. But you win if you are genuine. Women get it quickly.

This situation is so rare...

A Point Well Taken . You were at the right place at the right time to see her as she was . True Hindsight is 20 / 20 .

Once the experience is over . It pays to be always on alert & watchful . Whenever a situation like this one may come around again .

Be prepared . Keep your eyes open & be willing to say something to someone , who may have wet themselves for pleasure of being noticed by someone of like minded interest in it as well .

Dusty Harold

[Maria]

I know it's easy for people to criticize you for not approaching her, but don't feel bad about it. Most people would be terrified to do so, just in case their instincts were dead wrong and merely a case of wishful thinking.

Having said that, I also suspect she really would have favored an encounter. The fact that she was a mature woman and smiled at you tells me that much. Many a middle-aged man has been shocked and surprised to find himself with a raging hard-on when his equally middle-aged wife has an accident -- which often happens. So the chances are good that a woman of that age was perfectly well aware that you were aroused and would have welcomed some sexual appreciation.

All the same, I know it's tough. The thought is: Oh my God, what if I'm WRONG? I have smiled at a few guys in similar situations. None of them ever approached me.

[PP1]

Maybe HomeAlone is a (relatively) young guy who felt weird whensexually aroused by a middle-aged gal.

[Maria]

Maybe HomeAlone is a (relatively) young guy who felt weird whensexually aroused by a middle-aged gal.

That's odd.... When I used to go to night classes at the local junior college, none of the young guys seemed to feel the least bit "weird" about becoming aroused by my short skirts............

[stevem]

Why, oh why did you not have the guts to talk to her: Friendly, as an educated person, suppressing your excitement (she will notice and like that!), telling her you can't help feeling attracted by her state. Be serious, don't conceal yourself behind a stupid grin. Avoid any embarrassment for her.

I have done so twice, and the outcome was positive, believe it or not!
She first won't believe that a completely normal man talks in these terms about that. But you win if you are genuine. Women get it quickly.

This situation is so rare...

I saw a woman a while back at an outdoor event in my town that had wet herself. She was walking around by herself and I really thought she was into it. I actually made small talk with her and it was going very well, than I asked "hey, did you pee your pants?" She says yes, like it's no big deal. My heart is pounding out of my chest. I then say something positive about it and she has a fit saying how she didn't mean to do it and got real nasty. I couldn't get out of there quick enough.
I've seen a lot of accidents and have talked to a lot of women with wet pants. I think it's best to handle it very carefully not to embarrass her or get yourself in any trouble.

[lhansen]

Hard to Make a Call

Years ago. I used to always go to a crazy October fest in a German community near where I live. Year after year I would always wind up with some inebriated women and have a wonderful time, secretly though, I really wanted to be with the girl who'd peed her pants. A number did wet their pants too.

One year I noticed a cute brunet that had wet her panties and didn't seem to be bothered by it. I tried everything to hang out with her and seemed to be doing OK. I got her number and called to make a date. The problem was it turned out to be all wrong. I swear, nothing went right. It was then that I realized that the only way to find a girl that wets her pants is to create one.

The only way I've found success is to be as loving and kind as possible and convince her that "girls who wet their pants get licked a lot more than girls who don't". That seemed to be as good a start as any.

[Maria]

Well, those last two posts explain why I said that most people would be terrified to approach a woman under those circumstances.

Still, I wonder how old they were. A woman who is in her 50s, who probably has accidents, and who smiles at you when she sees that you're looking.... I would still call that a really good bet.

It's not really as uncommon as one might think among couples of "a certain age." One night when I was on "girl's night out" with a friend and she got more than a bit tipsy, she burned my ears with some tales about her hubby's reaction to some of her 40-plus "stress incontinence" incidents.

[PP1]

I'm old enough to be on medicare, which takes me out of the concert scene; but I still oggle attractive womean from 20-60.

I've had a few sightings over the years at the beach, amusement parks, sporting events, etc. Perhaps because I've had the good fortune to share most of my adult life with gals who were wetters or at least willing to indulge me, I always thouht it prudent to leave the circumstances to my imagination.

When I was in my 20's I'd never have more than glanced at a 50 year old whom I chanced to see with a wet spot on her crotch or butt. Even if she had smiled at me and said something like "Turned you on, right?" the age gap would have deterred a conversation and eliminated any chance for something more.

[Omo Rashi]

Approaching a woman in wet pants can never be done with the firm expectation that she is one of us. In those two cases I mentioned I was not at all sure how she would react. It is important to be realistic. And to this day I do not know if those women did it on purpose. It is more likely that it were "wettings for convenience":

The first woman probably just found it uncomfortable to stand up and use a toilet. She probably thought it was not a big deal to let it go through her pants (she let her bum hang over the end of the bench where she was sitting and peed), maybe she even had done so before on similar occasions. She certainly did not expect to be approached and looked at me in disbelief at first. I had waited for an opportunity when she stood up, so could talk to her without other bench neighbours listening. I really did not know as to how she would react (and was of course not excluding a possible harsh reaction). At first she tried to deny it, made a comment about spilled beer, but kept watching my face and must have realized that I was not kidding, was not demanding anything, was just seriously aroused.
That is what I said: Don't hide anything. Be quiet and nice, but be absolutely authentic. Don't start a conversation about some rubbish if talking about her accident is what you really want (erm, stevem...). She will let you know quickly if she really doesn't want it, and if you leave her in peace then she won't probably get loud or nasty.
To continue the scene: The expression of her face changed. She was suddenly aroused herself. Now it was my turn to be flabbergasted: She turned around and spread her legs to let me feel her from behind, in plain sight of the people around. I had started the scenario but now it was me who felt concerned about possible consequences (indecent behaviour, adolescents present...)
I have described this scene before but was treated as a liar or story-teller, so leave it at that now here. I only say: This is what really happened. It is a true incident without any ornament. Unforgettable of course. (It certainly played a role that she was a foreign woman who stayed there for just that night, nobody knew her, and she was sure there would not be any follow-ups. But all this I did not know when I approached her. I was surprised when I noticed that she did not speak my language.)

The other incident was much shorter: a girl with her boy-friend (she about 20, he about 35 I'd say). I could only see the lower part of her pants legs (her knees and below, blue jeans) because she had a short coat on. But the small pee streaks were unmistakable. I did not know what to do, following them in a short distance, close to a heart attack. Then I was lucky as the guy wanted to get cigarettes. He went off and left her alone for a moment, just to buy cigarettes round the corner (I knew this only when I saw him come back afterwards!). I quickly walked over to her and said as quiet as possible "I am sorry I am so direct and must be so quick. But, - have you peed in your pants?" She first gave me a strange look, then after a pause said "Yes I have" - but her eyes were alarming me: Now one wrong word, and she would become nasty. Referring to that, I quickly shook my head and said "No, it's not that. I am different. May seem strange, but I like that." Again this effect: Her eyes became immediately milder. She was about to say something, but her boyfriend turned round the corner so that I better left her alone. And that was it. I followed in some distance but not for long as the guy had clearly noticed something, and I did not want complications.

A third case was a negative one: A girl on a fair had wet herself (I am sure purposely, planned, because she was there with a friend who most unusually had a long coat on... I am sure she was wet too, but there was nothing to be seen.) She was wearing dark pants, probably thought nobody would notice. Of course I did. I love it. But she realized I had noticed it before I had said anything. She immediately walked over to one of the stands (so that the two attendants could not see her pants) and complained about me, that I had made an offensive and frightening approach - which was not true at all, I had not said a single word. The two inside did not know what to do but looked at me "critically". I felt almost viewed as a pedophile (because the girl was much younger than me indeed), so had no choice and left, shaking my head, however, and seeing the two people in the stand smile in uncertaincy. This sly girl got what she wanted, maybe had prepared that reaction beforehand for the case of discovery.