What to do after finding a willing partner?

[jkanau]

So, I've got a girl that's open to pretty much anything.

She's peed herself a few times for me already. And, we discovered she likes me peeing on her (especially her clit!). It's surprisingly difficult to pee on command, especially when hard!

Now, I ask of you with more experience: is there information (of any sort) that might be beneficial to someone getting started in pee play with a partner? We both don't know much and want to change that!

[Apemantus]

So, I've got a girl that's open to pretty much anything.

She's peed herself a few times for me already. And, we discovered she likes me peeing on her (especially her clit!). It's surprisingly difficult to pee on command, especially when hard!

Now, I ask of you with more experience: is there information (of any sort) that might be beneficial to someone getting started in pee play with a partner? We both don't know much and want to change that!

As you're both keen, I'd start with simply thinking about what scenarios would turn you on and acting on them (eg what clothes to wet in, what locations etc.) Then you can always consider progressing to being more daring, if that would excite you both, from more public wettings, to perhaps trying diapers and using them? If you surf around, there's lots of ideas on forums like this and Fetlife.

It is difficult to pee when hard, though one side effect of it is the tendency to spray everywhere, which clearly is more a good thing than a problem!!

Enjoy! And if you ever felt inclined to share pics, you know they have a very good pic forum right here...

[David,England]

Wow - well get her to dress in pyjamas and wet the bed! Then you can slide her pj's down and lick her out till she cums! I'll leave the rest to your imagination!

David

[johnnyc82]

Or you can tickle her until she pees her pants. You can do it on the bed so that way you get both a wetting and a bedwetting (both are huge turn ons but protect the bed first)

[Vic]

You two have a sweet time of life!!

My dear wife Marie & I are about to celebrate 25 years of marriage (& lots of wet fun, too...)
It's said that free advice is worth what you paid for it, but here goes, anyway..
There are 2 unshakeable rules in any relationship, involving pee play, or anything else, for that matter- "CARE FOR YOUR PARTNER!", and "HAVE FUN!". That being said, anything else is just an implementation of these 2 golden rules.
Some things Marie & I enjoy are "role playing games" and "random chance" games.
For "role playing", you each become a character in a fantasy that the two of you will then act out (resulting, of course, in mutual mega-orgasm!). Just PLANNING the fantasy playtime together is a HUGE amount of fun!
You put forth to her who your character is, and who you want her character to be. She does the same. You two then "mix & match" these factors to come up with your evening's entertainment!
Otherwise- you can each write down your fantasy and do a "coin flip" or something similar to see which of your fantasies you two promise that you will make into reality!
VERY IMPORTANT!- When you each write down your fantasy (which you & your partner have each PROMISED to fulfill) BOTH of you be SURE to not list any of your partner's "wouldn't's", "shouldn't's", or "couldn't's".
"Wouldn't's"- Anything humiliating or repulsive to your partner. (If you don't know the answer to this, then you should become better acquainted first.)
"Shouldn't's"- Anything that could harm you, your partner, or anyone else. (Illegal, dangerous, etc.)
"Couldn't's"- Anything not reasonably possible. ("Buy me a Corvette", "Pee on me while we're nude skydiving", "Charter us a jet to Hawaii", etc.)
It's now after 4 am here, & I'm damn tired. Later on, I'll post a good story about a bet I "lost" to my Dear Marie...
Later!- Vic

[DeltaFoxtrot]

If I may interject...

Check out the Watersports Training Manual over on Patches' website. Good info.

http://www.patches.net/page/trainingman.php

[Maria]

Hi. I agree with Vic. Role-playing with a trusted partner is a fantastic and beautiful thing.

My boyfriend and I are both in our early fifties. Like many men, he had a fatal attraction to extremely slutty women when he was a young man, and like many other men he dated a few of them and ended up getting hurt emotionally when they turned out to be just as cheap as the clothes they wore.

I like to role-play for him. He has a breakfast bar in his kitchen, so we turn off the lights, light some candles, and pretend that we are actually at a bar in town. I wear high heels and pack my big rear end into a little black dress so short that it doesn’t even cover my underwear. He pretends that he is meeting me for the first time and picking me up.

At some point in our role-playing, I always wet my pants, pretending to be the kind who “just doesn’t care.” It drives him wild with lust.

In the morning, of course, we will go back to our respectable jobs and act like respectable people, but we have a special smile on our faces that’s left over from the night before.

We would never really behave like that in public, but the fantasy is totally incredible.

[herc]

You have got to agree how far each of you will go.
It is no good expecting a glorious soaking or bed wetting everytime, make the most of what your partner is willing to do.
I have only just got my other half into multiply wetting to stain pants but it has taken a long time.
Enjoy what you have even if you have to wet your own pants to satisfy your needs while thinking of what some lady can do for you.