It is my day off from work today, so that is why I am posting so much. I hope no one minds, but many of you entered into the discussion as to whether this so-called fetish is actually “normal,” so I am going to try to spark more discussion.
One night I was with two of my friends, Abby and Sarah. Abby is in her middle 50s and very fit, while Sarah is younger, in her mid 40s and very much the epitome of what you guys would call a “big fat blonde.” Abby is a very polite, well-mannered person, while Sarah, by contrast, is one of the lewdest and crudest girls I have ever met.
We were at Applebee’s and had more than a few glasses of wine. Every little joke seemed like the funniest thing in the world, you know how it is.
We were laughing our guts out, and when the laughter stopped, Abby said, “Oh my goodness, I laughed so hard, I think I might have wet my pants a little bit.”
At this point, lewd crude Sarah blurted out, “It’s a good thing my husband didn’t hear you say that!”
We all went dead silent. We looked at each other, giggled nervously, then got all quiet again. You can tell a lot by tone of voice, and there was no mistaking the context. What Sarah had meant to say was that if her husband had been present, he would have become aroused by what Abby said.
When I was out on a date with my boyfriend Richard a few nights later, I asked him about it. A little background: Richard is in his early 50s. Until about 4 years ago, he was married to a woman his own age, they had three kids together. Her final pregnancy, when she was in her middle 30s, was quite difficult. After that, she began to experience little bits of stress incontinence. At first Richard was surprised to find himself feeling mildly aroused instead of dismayed. Then one day, when they were in their early 40s, they got stuck in traffic on the freeway. As it turned out, they were stuck for way too long and the wife completely flooded her pants. Richard found himself with a raging hard-on.
When I told him about the conversation with Abby and Sarah, he said he was not surprised. He said there are probably a large number of middle-aged guys, many of whom never thought of themselves as “fetishists,” who have found themselves with a pounding stiffy when the wife, of similar age, has an accident. He also went on to say that most women of that age would be delighted to find their middle-aged husband’s tool as rock hard and ready as when he was a 19-year-old stud, and would probably gladly wet their pants to achieve that effect. He said, “I bet it happens a lot, more than most people would ever believe. Abby seems the shy type but obviously knows about it, while I don’t think there’s any question that Sarah was speaking from personal experience.”
What do you think? Is this sort of thing as common as Richard believes?
One night I was with two of my friends, Abby and Sarah. Abby is in her middle 50s and very fit, while Sarah is younger, in her mid 40s and very much the epitome of what you guys would call a “big fat blonde.” Abby is a very polite, well-mannered person, while Sarah, by contrast, is one of the lewdest and crudest girls I have ever met.
We were at Applebee’s and had more than a few glasses of wine. Every little joke seemed like the funniest thing in the world, you know how it is.
We were laughing our guts out, and when the laughter stopped, Abby said, “Oh my goodness, I laughed so hard, I think I might have wet my pants a little bit.”
At this point, lewd crude Sarah blurted out, “It’s a good thing my husband didn’t hear you say that!”
We all went dead silent. We looked at each other, giggled nervously, then got all quiet again. You can tell a lot by tone of voice, and there was no mistaking the context. What Sarah had meant to say was that if her husband had been present, he would have become aroused by what Abby said.
When I was out on a date with my boyfriend Richard a few nights later, I asked him about it. A little background: Richard is in his early 50s. Until about 4 years ago, he was married to a woman his own age, they had three kids together. Her final pregnancy, when she was in her middle 30s, was quite difficult. After that, she began to experience little bits of stress incontinence. At first Richard was surprised to find himself feeling mildly aroused instead of dismayed. Then one day, when they were in their early 40s, they got stuck in traffic on the freeway. As it turned out, they were stuck for way too long and the wife completely flooded her pants. Richard found himself with a raging hard-on.
When I told him about the conversation with Abby and Sarah, he said he was not surprised. He said there are probably a large number of middle-aged guys, many of whom never thought of themselves as “fetishists,” who have found themselves with a pounding stiffy when the wife, of similar age, has an accident. He also went on to say that most women of that age would be delighted to find their middle-aged husband’s tool as rock hard and ready as when he was a 19-year-old stud, and would probably gladly wet their pants to achieve that effect. He said, “I bet it happens a lot, more than most people would ever believe. Abby seems the shy type but obviously knows about it, while I don’t think there’s any question that Sarah was speaking from personal experience.”
What do you think? Is this sort of thing as common as Richard believes?
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