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    It is my day off from work today, so that is why I am posting so much. I hope no one minds, but many of you entered into the discussion as to whether this so-called fetish is actually “normal,” so I am going to try to spark more discussion.

    One night I was with two of my friends, Abby and Sarah. Abby is in her middle 50s and very fit, while Sarah is younger, in her mid 40s and very much the epitome of what you guys would call a “big fat blonde.” Abby is a very polite, well-mannered person, while Sarah, by contrast, is one of the lewdest and crudest girls I have ever met.

    We were at Applebee’s and had more than a few glasses of wine. Every little joke seemed like the funniest thing in the world, you know how it is.

    We were laughing our guts out, and when the laughter stopped, Abby said, “Oh my goodness, I laughed so hard, I think I might have wet my pants a little bit.”

    At this point, lewd crude Sarah blurted out, “It’s a good thing my husband didn’t hear you say that!”

    We all went dead silent. We looked at each other, giggled nervously, then got all quiet again. You can tell a lot by tone of voice, and there was no mistaking the context. What Sarah had meant to say was that if her husband had been present, he would have become aroused by what Abby said.

    When I was out on a date with my boyfriend Richard a few nights later, I asked him about it. A little background: Richard is in his early 50s. Until about 4 years ago, he was married to a woman his own age, they had three kids together. Her final pregnancy, when she was in her middle 30s, was quite difficult. After that, she began to experience little bits of stress incontinence. At first Richard was surprised to find himself feeling mildly aroused instead of dismayed. Then one day, when they were in their early 40s, they got stuck in traffic on the freeway. As it turned out, they were stuck for way too long and the wife completely flooded her pants. Richard found himself with a raging hard-on.

    When I told him about the conversation with Abby and Sarah, he said he was not surprised. He said there are probably a large number of middle-aged guys, many of whom never thought of themselves as “fetishists,” who have found themselves with a pounding stiffy when the wife, of similar age, has an accident. He also went on to say that most women of that age would be delighted to find their middle-aged husband’s tool as rock hard and ready as when he was a 19-year-old stud, and would probably gladly wet their pants to achieve that effect. He said, “I bet it happens a lot, more than most people would ever believe. Abby seems the shy type but obviously knows about it, while I don’t think there’s any question that Sarah was speaking from personal experience.”

    What do you think? Is this sort of thing as common as Richard believes?

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    Maria, I think this fetish is fairly common, otherwise sites like this wouldn't exist. And no, I don't mind you posting lots of stuff...these boards have been a bit dead as of late, so go nuts.

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    • #3
      Quite common

      Yes, Maria, it's quite common. Amongst younger women, these days, I believe that there is too much stigma, but older women, particularly if they've seen a bit of the world, probably know it's not such a big deal, and have lived long enough to think it's actually quite fun. I have no doubt that the main attraction of sites like this if for men, but it's refreshing that there are so many women here, and I think that says something too.

      In a previous post I mentioned Mister Poll. I'll mention it again. Plenty of polls there that show quite definitely that there are lots of women at all ages that either deliberately pee their pants or accidentally, and don't really mind. Please Maria, continue to post your stories, I love reading them.

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      • #4
        Awesome account. Thanks.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Lloyd_R1
          Yes, Maria, it's quite common. Amongst younger women, these days, I believe that there is too much stigma, but older women, particularly if they've seen a bit of the world, probably know it's not such a big deal, and have lived long enough to think it's actually quite fun. I have no doubt that the main attraction of sites like this if for men, but it's refreshing that there are so many women here, and I think that says something too.

          In a previous post I mentioned Mister Poll. I'll mention it again. Plenty of polls there that show quite definitely that there are lots of women at all ages that either deliberately pee their pants or accidentally, and don't really mind. Please Maria, continue to post your stories, I love reading them.
          Hmmmm, that would be a really scientific study, rather like saying all the females on Facebook that have profiles focussed on wetting, shitting and diapers are all representative and for real...

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          • #6
            While I'm not ready to declare wetting 'normal', it is interesting to me how many Youtube videos there have been over the years of both accidental and deliberate wettings. There's also a surprising number of girls/women in these videos who find that peeing themselves is funny, rather than disgusting. Also, there's a surprisingly high number who don't seem to find it difficult to pee their pants on command for a video. It suggests to me that female wetting in general is more common than I would have thought.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by AramFingal
              While I'm not ready to declare wetting 'normal', it is interesting to me how many Youtube videos there have been over the years of both accidental and deliberate wettings. There's also a surprising number of girls/women in these videos who find that peeing themselves is funny, rather than disgusting. Also, there's a surprisingly high number who don't seem to find it difficult to pee their pants on command for a video. It suggests to me that female wetting in general is more common than I would have thought.
              Except...

              There's also a surprising number of girls/women in these videos who find that peeing themselves is funny, rather than disgusting.
              Or rather, the ones who do find it funny, are more likely to be featured on Youtube because if you didn't, you certainly wouldn't post it and you would have to have cunty friends to post a video of you doing something you find disgusting. Some friends are cunts and they do post it, but happily, many humans are not cunts.

              Also, there's a surprisingly high number who don't seem to find it difficult to pee their pants on command for a video.
              Sorry, high number out of what!? You mean, there are a few girls who pee their pants on command, out of the billions of females on the planet.

              It suggests to me that female wetting in general is more common than I would have thought.
              Well, let's have what you thought and then let's see what evidence there is for it? How many females did you expect to be into it?

              I don't dispute that for many fetishists, who initially may think they are the solitary human on the planet who gets a kick from pissing themselves on purpose, that they are surprised and delighted when others turn out to be also into it. That is truly heartwarming and thank goodness etc etc...

              But, I think it is ridiculous to extrapolate from personal experience to making generalisations about attitudes to wetting. The evidence is nearly always poorly sourced - the videos have been sought rather than randomly found, the seeker tends to want to feel like they are normal or at least belong, they often also misinterpret the videos and the posters' motivations - and there are well known psychological attitudes that reinforce the view of oneself, rather than being objective.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Lloyd_R1
                In a previous post I mentioned Mister Poll. I'll mention it again. Plenty of polls there that show quite definitely that there are lots of women at all ages that either deliberately pee their pants or accidentally, and don't really mind.
                Oh dear. Who said naivity was dead?

                Lloyd, if you believe stuff you read on misterpoll then you'll believe anything. A certain type of first person story stands out a mile away as being total bullsh!t. And misterpoll is full of them. A bit like www.experienceproject.com.

                Aloo

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Apemantus
                  Except...



                  Or rather, the ones who do find it funny, are more likely to be featured on Youtube because if you didn't, you certainly wouldn't post it and you would have to have cunty friends to post a video of you doing something you find disgusting. Some friends are cunts and they do post it, but happily, many humans are not cunts.



                  Sorry, high number out of what!? You mean, there are a few girls who pee their pants on command, out of the billions of females on the planet.



                  Well, let's have what you thought and then let's see what evidence there is for it? How many females did you expect to be into it?

                  I don't dispute that for many fetishists, who initially may think they are the solitary human on the planet who gets a kick from pissing themselves on purpose, that they are surprised and delighted when others turn out to be also into it. That is truly heartwarming and thank goodness etc etc...

                  But, I think it is ridiculous to extrapolate from personal experience to making generalisations about attitudes to wetting. The evidence is nearly always poorly sourced - the videos have been sought rather than randomly found, the seeker tends to want to feel like they are normal or at least belong, they often also misinterpret the videos and the posters' motivations - and there are well known psychological attitudes that reinforce the view of oneself, rather than being objective.
                  wow. it's really not possible to slip one by you or bigger a-hole version of you, is it? you make good points and i largely agree with them, but why you're insisting on having to win this argument, i'm not sure. i was not arguing that wetting as a sexual fetish among women is at all prevalent, or 'hidden' but common, or growing, or anything of the sort. i imagine it's extremely rare, though i can't say for sure. what i do believe is what i said, not what you've twisted my words into meaning - i am surprised by the number of videos i see online, and by the fact that the participants largely find it funny instead of gross.

                  my last sentence just means that girls, at least the ones involved in these videos, pee themselves accidentally more often than i would have thought. i suppose you 'got' me in that this doesn't represent females at large.
                  Last edited by AramFingal; April 19, 2011, 08:06 AM.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Aloo
                    Lloyd, if you believe stuff you read on misterpoll then you'll believe anything. A certain type of first person story stands out a mile away as being total bullsh!t. And misterpoll is full of them. A bit like www.experienceproject.com.
                    At least some of the stories on experience project are hot, even if they're fake. Misterpoll is 20% people who can't spell pretending to be teenage fetishists and 80% "HEY GUYS DO MY NEW POLL" with a good story slipping in on the rarest of rare occasions.

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                    • #11
                      I don't think we're "normal" by any stretch of the imagination. We intentionally pee our pants, wet our beds, pee on lovers or ask them to pee on us, pee in public, pee discretely where "normal" people don't pee (like motel hallways), lick pee, sip on pee, drink pee... don't kid yourselves, we're far from normal.

                      I think that at least experimenting with this fetish is more common than most people think. But that's a long way from "normal". Most couples that try a golden shower in the bathtub (so amateur hour...) don't go on to develop full blown fetishes.

                      Having said that, and all political correctness aside, I don't see how a guy licking another guy's hairy ass and balls got out of the closet, while we're still in. That's one of the reasons my picture is in my profile. Just because we're weird (which we are) doesn't mean we should be in anybody's closet.

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