Hi all, hoping you can help as I am getting married this year and need to clear this up with my fiance before strolling down that isle.
When we first met, i was pretty quick to tell her about my pee fetish. When I did, it didn't phase her a bit and she quickly started exploring it. She started the same way most new comers do, in the shower with just her underwear on and then the toilet, but then became pretty comfortable with it, and would surprise me in bed every now and then by peeing herself and even wetting while I wasn't even home, just so she could say that she did.
After about 2 years, we had a break, I moved overseas but neither of us saw other people and we emailed everyday. I guess we were kind of still together. And we came up with the idea to give each other "Missions". Where everyday we would give each other a mission for the day. For example, I gave her a mission where for 24 hours she could not use a bathroom to pee and had to pee in her panties every single time. All missions had to be backed up with photographic evidence.
It was amazing, she completed every mission I gave her, at work, at home, in her bed, in her car. I decided then she was the one I had to marry.
It's been 2 years since I then and returned to Australia from overseas to be with her again and we are now engaged.
Slowly but surely though, the peeing has stopped. At first she was still peeing for me but not in the same fashion as while I was away. It wasn't as 'naughty' I guess. Then it slowed down quite a bit. Over the last six months, she has wet herself once, and that was after a party and she was drunk and couldn't really hold it.
I also travel a lot for work now, and figured it would be cool when i'm away to try to get 'missions' back up and running again but she said she isn't really interested in doing that. I try to get her to send me photos of herself wetting but I never get them.
I have brought it up with her several times and she doesn't really have an answer why she doesn't do it anymore. We will drink beer or wine on the weekends and I get excited knowing she will need to pee and then she will just get up and go to the bathroom.
I guess I feel a little insulted by that. It would be different if she had not liked it right from the start but it was something we enjoyed together, a fetish of mine that she accepted and participated in and now just wont. We have sex still but I don't feel like it's fair on me that my needs aren't being satisfied and now we're getting close to our wedding i'm really starting to worry. I didn't choose to like what I like but I just do and the thought of spending the rest of my days with her not making that effort is worrying me.
We have been together for 5 years now. Is it a case of the honeymoon period being over or worse? Am i being unreasonable or paranoid? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I need your thoughts because lately I have been second guessing myself and even thinking my even having this type of fetish is unreasonable. It's not like I can leave her and go and find someone who is. I have never met another person who is into pee just people who will oblige it and that is very rare.
When we first met, i was pretty quick to tell her about my pee fetish. When I did, it didn't phase her a bit and she quickly started exploring it. She started the same way most new comers do, in the shower with just her underwear on and then the toilet, but then became pretty comfortable with it, and would surprise me in bed every now and then by peeing herself and even wetting while I wasn't even home, just so she could say that she did.
After about 2 years, we had a break, I moved overseas but neither of us saw other people and we emailed everyday. I guess we were kind of still together. And we came up with the idea to give each other "Missions". Where everyday we would give each other a mission for the day. For example, I gave her a mission where for 24 hours she could not use a bathroom to pee and had to pee in her panties every single time. All missions had to be backed up with photographic evidence.
It was amazing, she completed every mission I gave her, at work, at home, in her bed, in her car. I decided then she was the one I had to marry.
It's been 2 years since I then and returned to Australia from overseas to be with her again and we are now engaged.
Slowly but surely though, the peeing has stopped. At first she was still peeing for me but not in the same fashion as while I was away. It wasn't as 'naughty' I guess. Then it slowed down quite a bit. Over the last six months, she has wet herself once, and that was after a party and she was drunk and couldn't really hold it.
I also travel a lot for work now, and figured it would be cool when i'm away to try to get 'missions' back up and running again but she said she isn't really interested in doing that. I try to get her to send me photos of herself wetting but I never get them.
I have brought it up with her several times and she doesn't really have an answer why she doesn't do it anymore. We will drink beer or wine on the weekends and I get excited knowing she will need to pee and then she will just get up and go to the bathroom.
I guess I feel a little insulted by that. It would be different if she had not liked it right from the start but it was something we enjoyed together, a fetish of mine that she accepted and participated in and now just wont. We have sex still but I don't feel like it's fair on me that my needs aren't being satisfied and now we're getting close to our wedding i'm really starting to worry. I didn't choose to like what I like but I just do and the thought of spending the rest of my days with her not making that effort is worrying me.
We have been together for 5 years now. Is it a case of the honeymoon period being over or worse? Am i being unreasonable or paranoid? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I need your thoughts because lately I have been second guessing myself and even thinking my even having this type of fetish is unreasonable. It's not like I can leave her and go and find someone who is. I have never met another person who is into pee just people who will oblige it and that is very rare.
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