schoolgirl wetting

[KingPlant]

I'm confused, you love intentional wetting in a public place but not on public property? How does that work? You only let your wife pee on private property that is also public?



Personally, I'm not really into the baby stuff either, but I can see the appeal. After dealing with the stresses of adult life, they want to pretend to return to a time when everything was simple and there was always someone there to take care of them. How that becomes sexual, Freud only knows, but it makes as much sense as any other fetish.

Sexual fetishes are very strange psychological phenomena. I doubt very many people really understand why certain things turn them on. Could you explain to me exactly why you are into panty wetting?

I was very specific when I said 'not on public property' I didn't say not on a public road. Your all just splitting hairs now and trying to pull everything I say apart and I still believe it's because you have lost the argument.

Tell me why you want to have a 'baby girl' who wets a nappy. Why not a women wetting a nappy dressed as a woman.

I am into panty wetting because it was triggered at the age of six when a friend I was playing with wet herself. From that point on, when I see a woman wanting a pee I get butterflies in my tummy, an Itch in my bell end and a fucking big hard on. If she wets herself it's the cherry on the cake.

Wet sex for me is thrilling when the woman I am with can pee on me while I am inside her and is willing to accept me peeing in her. I usually do this with the woman on the top of me so the pee runs over my balls into the bed. All that liquid, some from her and some from me brings me off.

YOU NEXT - I have been asking you to describe what nappies do for you and especially the AB stuff but no-one has replied with any decent response.

You all just started this tirade of insults to save you the bother of answering my question.

[toiletcontroller]

well seeing as you ask, my favourite situation is when we are out in public (bar etc.) and she is sat on my lap, she doesnt need to say anything, I can feel her suddenly go still in my arms, then sigh slightly with relief, followed seconds later by that warm feeling on my lap as her pee is soaked up by the nappy, then knowing that we can sit there still enjoying the evening, but in the full knowledge she has just completely wet herself in a public place, but with no damage done ....

[Apemantus]

I agree with you and that applies to me where knicker wetting is concerned, but you haven't mentioned the people who like to dress up as babies wearing nappies and wetting them wanting you to change it afterwards - does that turn you on?

I even understand shitting (or scat as they like to call it). I couldn't get involved but I do understand those that do.

It's just this baby stuff I can't get my head round and no one has yet given me their reasons for liking it. They just defend their actions.

I am not afraid to tell people I am into wetting but I am not going to get my missus to piss all over someone else's property or in their company. Yes she does wet herself when we are out but we are careful where she does it. I love the intentional wetting in a public place but not on public property.

FFS - its because you are a tedious asshole probably that noone has answered your question, that and the fact that they don't have to explain themselves to you - you have to explain yourself!

But just to stop the tedium, here is why it turns me on (I could be more detailed but frankly I can't be bothered and I don't give enough of a fuck). These apply TO ME, everyone is different and others may have different reasons, there is no one answer.

Its about submission and domination, it's about the girl taking a submissive role and me taking a Daddy role (the Daddy - Girl dynamic has a wide range of scenarios of which nappies is but one, wetting is another, some even like shit etc.) There's an intimacy and deep personal experience when you change someone - it's a great feeling that you either understand or you don't.

It's about the naughtiness of them wearing something that they should have grown out of - for those of us who came to this via being a wetter, there can be an excitement knowing that someone else is being naughty (cf above)

It's about the material, the noise, what's inside the nappy, how it feels on them, how it feels against my body, it's about the psychology, it's about empathy, it's about fun.

OK, I'll be surprised if any of that even connects with you, as you clearly lack basic social skills and human understanding, which probably explains why you also don't get girls in nappies!

[tinkletown]

I was very specific when I said 'not on public property' I didn't say not on a public road. Your all just splitting hairs now and trying to pull everything I say apart and I still believe it's because you have lost the argument.

Tell me why you want to have a 'baby girl' who wets a nappy. Why not a women wetting a nappy dressed as a woman.

I am into panty wetting because it was triggered at the age of six when a friend I was playing with wet herself. From that point on, when I see a woman wanting a pee I get butterflies in my tummy, an Itch in my bell end and a fucking big hard on. If she wets herself it's the cherry on the cake.

Wet sex for me is thrilling when the woman I am with can pee on me while I am inside her and is willing to accept me peeing in her. I usually do this with the woman on the top of me so the pee runs over my balls into the bed. All that liquid, some from her and some from me brings me off.

I wasn't trying to split hairs, I really was just a bit confused. Public roads are still public property. But I think I get what you were trying to say. You don't want to let your wife pee somewhere in public that is going to inconvenience someone else by making them clean it up like inside a shop or something. I've got nothing against that.

While you can point to a trigger event as the time you first realized wetting made you feel something you still didn't explain why that event triggered those feelings. I'm not trying to argue here, I'm just pointing out that it's really hard to explain exactly why certain things turn you on. Most people don't even try to analyze their fetishes beyond the fact that it excites them sexually. Just because they can't explain their fetish, doesn't mean it isn't real to them.

As far as age regression, the naughty little girl and baby talk are a lot more mainstream than the wetting fetish. Wearing diapers is just taking it a little further.

[KingPlant]

[QUOTE=tinkletown][QUOTE=KingPlant]I was very specific when I said 'not on public property' I didn't say not on a public road. Your all just splitting hairs now and trying to pull everything I say apart and I still believe it's because you have lost the argument.

Tell me why you want to have a 'baby girl' who wets a nappy. Why not a women wetting a nappy dressed as a woman.

I am into panty wetting because it was triggered at the age of six when a friend I was playing with wet herself. From that point on, when I see a woman wanting a pee I get butterflies in my tummy, an Itch in my bell end and a fucking big hard on. If she wets herself it's the cherry on the cake.

Wet sex for me is thrilling when the woman I am with can pee on me while I am inside her and is willing to accept me peeing in her. I usually do this with the woman on the top of me so the pee runs over my balls into the bed. All that liquid, some from her and some from me brings me off.

I wasn't trying to split hairs, I really was just a bit confused. Public roads are still public property. But I think I get what you were trying to say. You don't want to let your wife pee somewhere in public that is going to inconvenience someone else by making them clean it up like inside a shop or something. I've got nothing against that.

While you can point to a trigger event as the time you first realized wetting made you feel something you still didn't explain why that event triggered those feelings. I'm not trying to argue here, I'm just pointing out that it's really hard to explain exactly why certain things turn you on. Most people don't even try to analyze their fetishes beyond the fact that it excites them sexually. Just because they can't explain their fetish, doesn't mean it isn't real to them.

As far as age regression, the naughty little girl and baby talk are a lot more mainstream than the wetting fetish. Wearing diapers is just taking it a little further.

I do get what you are saying and I guess it might be best not to ask that question from anyone. I am not afraid to say I like to see women wet themselves but I would be afraid to tell people I like to see women dressed as babies in nappies wetting themselves.

As for the psychological reasons behind this fetish - they can not be answered because if you go to a psychologist for counselling they try to talk you out of the fetish instead of trying to understand why you like it.

[Apemantus]

As for the psychological reasons behind this fetish - they can not be answered because if you go to a psychologist for counselling they try to talk you out of the fetish instead of trying to understand why you like it.

Have you been to one, because if so, you have been to a bad one! Psychologists just help you understand your emotions and thoughts. For some people, that may mean they change behaviour that they do not like (eg alcoholics who are violent), for someone with a fetish, it would depend on whether the fetish was bad for them (eg, were they being obsessive about it, was it damaging their relationships with other people) and how to change the behaviour they want to change.

In the end, if someone seeks counselling, it is usually because there is a problem they need help with. If you have a fetish, it does you no harm and it harms no-one else, why are you seeking counselling in the first place?

[KingPlant]

Have you been to one, because if so, you have been to a bad one! Psychologists just help you understand your emotions and thoughts. For some people, that may mean they change behaviour that they do not like (eg alcoholics who are violent), for someone with a fetish, it would depend on whether the fetish was bad for them (eg, were they being obsessive about it, was it damaging their relationships with other people) and how to change the behaviour they want to change.

In the end, if someone seeks counselling, it is usually because there is a problem they need help with. If you have a fetish, it does you no harm and it harms no-one else, why are you seeking counselling in the first place?

Psychologists believe that if you are 'obsessive' about something then it is bad for you. If it is spoiling the relationship it's you (the pisser) who must change.

Why would I need counselling - there is nothing wrong with me just because I only get turned on when piss is involved (along with all the usual emotions relating to a long term relationship) but I don't think there is anything wrong with me.

My partner doesn't think there is anything wrong with me either because she loves the same thing as I do. Anyway - I'm just nipping off for a while to get pissed on. I hope it doesn't piss you off too much..

[Apemantus]

Psychologists believe that if you are 'obsessive' about something then it is bad for you. If it is spoiling the relationship it's you (the pisser) who must change.

Why would I need counselling - there is nothing wrong with me just because I only get turned on when piss is involved (along with all the usual emotions relating to a long term relationship) but I don't think there is anything wrong with me.

My partner doesn't think there is anything wrong with me either because she loves the same thing as I do. Anyway - I'm just nipping off for a while to get pissed on. I hope it doesn't piss you off too much..

Couldn't care less, but it seems obvious you didn't read what I wrote. If there is nothing wrong with your relationship, clearly you don't need counselling! At least, not for that!

Psychologists are not anti-obsessiveness per se, it is just usually a sign of some deeper issue. In your case (and no doubt many on here), you are obsessive about piss. You have found a woman who seems equally obsessed, so like two junkies, you can bounce off each other and achieve what you desire. Which is fine.

But if you found your obsessiveness was costing you social interaction with any humans who are not as obsessive, it's not exactly unreasonable of the psychologists to think that you need to put things in perspective.

It's ok, that probably requires more insight than your mind can muster, let alone any self-awareness!

[KingPlant]

Couldn't care less, but it seems obvious you didn't read what I wrote. If there is nothing wrong with your relationship, clearly you don't need counselling! At least, not for that!

Psychologists are not anti-obsessiveness per se, it is just usually a sign of some deeper issue. In your case (and no doubt many on here), you are obsessive about piss. You have found a woman who seems equally obsessed, so like two junkies, you can bounce off each other and achieve what you desire. Which is fine.

But if you found your obsessiveness was costing you social interaction with any humans who are not as obsessive, it's not exactly unreasonable of the psychologists to think that you need to put things in perspective.

It's ok, that probably requires more insight than your mind can muster, let alone any self-awareness!

To start with, you are an insulting twat......

You really are up yourself and are either a psychologist yourself or have been seeing one for quite a while to have such a negative idea on pissing during sex. How did I reach that conclusion? because you likened us to two 'junkies'. That implies I need a 'fix' and that fix is to be pissed on. What is wrong in just loving wet sex. Isn't that the dream of 90% of the people who read this forum, to have a true wetting partner who likes exactly what they do. Is that not the dream of everyone and not just us watersports fans.

As for this social interaction crap - if you mean, do people think I am weird, then the answer is no, because, unlike gay people, I don't stuff it in peoples faces. It is a private thing that my wife and I share together.

You think that both my partner I must be 'obsessive' if we have wet sex every time but we see it as NORMAL sex. This is what psychologists won't accept. IT IS NORMAL. I am not obsessive I JUST LOVE IT.

Are people who just have vanilla sex 'obsessive' about that or do you think that is the bar we all have to accept to be normal in your eyes.
People on here call it a fetish but I like to consider it more of a 'sport' than a fetish.

If you are visiting a psychologist then make more appointments and if you ARE a psychologist, resign because you talk a load of crap...